Being surrounded by so many others also helped with loneliness. Her hectic work schedule and hermit lifestyle made finding someone special near impossible. Sure, she met tons of people in her line of work, but no one that wasn’t already married or not her type. And there were a lot of “not her types” around. Friends tried to set her up, but they were a bust too. Her friends didn’t seem to understand that it wasn’t that she was picky, it was that she wanted someone her heart instinctively recognized, as if they were destined to find each other.